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writes:uhm.. Hey to all. I need some advice. Please! Well here is my story... Im dating this other girl... For a month and two weeks now already. But i dont know what to do. during the week everything is fine and we talk through text messages and voice calls. When i call her like in the week and ask her if i should come visit her then she would be like yes please.. But when i call her her maybe on a thursday and ask her then she would be like il let you know and will sound so different like she dont want me to come over. she always sounds like that when its near the weekend.I want to spent time with her on weekends aswell but it seems to be a problem for her! like this weekend thats past. I called on her mommy's phone and she told me she thought her daughter's with me and minutes later i saw her with some other guy driving around.. i know there just friends, but why cant she spent time with me but she can with them? so should i end it? what should i do?? because im really confused. i want to make it work. but she cinfuses me ALOT. HELP!! and the other thing is her parents are great and really nice i really really want to make it work with this girl. But tell me what you think of this whole situation? its like she is two different people when she text and her actions. so ja thats my story. I need the the help i can get.
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reader, Wulfgrimm  +, writes (23 June 2008):
First, How long has she acted like this?
second, you need to talk to her. During the Week when she isn't acting different talk to her about making plans for that or the following weekend. Now if she doesn't want to bring up the fact that she never wants to spend time on the weekend. Don't make it sound like your being clingy, and don't make it sound like your accusing her of anything as both will blow up in your face. Comunication is the key to any relationship.
If she starts acting stupid about the situation then, yes, I would cut my losses. Her parents might be amazing, but in the end it doesn't matter because your not dateing them. Good Luck!
-Cris
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Theres a few different reasons why she could be acting like this. She may feel that if she spends too much time with you that she will lose her friends and she may not want to let you down and tell you that she is going out with her friends instead She could also have gone off you but is too scared to tell you Or she could be cheating
I think that the best thing to do is tell her How you are feeling and let her have her say Maybe she thinks that its okay to act this way But if things dont change then end it
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You have to go by how this is making you feel, Is she making you happy? Or is it more confusing than your mind can cope with love. Have you tryed not texting her so much and leaving it untill she texts you, If you are always ready and on hand then she may very well take things for granted..And why can she not introduce you to these friends and have a weekend of fun together ok so everyone needs there own time. But to pop your mind at rest that would be the sensible thing to do if she cared really..You have to ask yourself can you be happy with this arrangment as its all in her control at the moment, And no one likes to feel out of control love...I hope this helps hunny YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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