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writes:Well...Where to start!I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we are both 16. We haven't had sex, and he really respects me, he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together but recently my feelings towards him have changed. I still really like him but i don't think i love him anymore. I tried to explain to him but he got quite upset and told me he still loved me and begged me to try to make things work again. The thing is, i have liked another boy for a good while now, and he has told me he likes me too. We kissed not long ago, i feel quite guilty but to be honest it felt right at the time and i really like him...the problem is i know my boyfriend really loves me and the last thing i want to do is hurt him, but i can't stop thinking about this other boy, i don't want to do anything i will regret but i need advice as i am going insane thinking about it!Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (23 June 2008):
 I agree with PeterK: if you like another boy more than you like your boyfriend, you should end the relationship.
I know it's supposed to be the women that get all worked up when their partner lies to them, but the thing is, boys hate it too. If your boyfriend finds out about your feelings for this other boy, and of you kissing him, he will be far more hurt from the lying and secrets than from you breaking it up first. If it's bound to be a tearful break-up, us texts or msn. Face-to-face breakups are ideal, but are never easy.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (23 June 2008):
 I'm sorry but if you're gonna go off kissing other guys and saying it felt 'right' then you should end this relationship now. Boys don't like to go out with girls who snoop and kiss other guys.
Your boyfriend is going to be hurt even more when he finds out abut this, it's inevitable for him not to get hurt.
You say you don't want to do anything you'll regret but you should regret kissing this other boy.
I'll just say end it now before things get worse.
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