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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, i'm a girl and i have a serious problem...I think i may be in love with my best friend who is also a girl. I'm not attracted to girls in general just her...after two drunken kisses on two different occassions i can't get her out of my head! On the second kiss we fingered each other...and i picture that memory in my head and masturbate over her.I just want to lick her all over. I don't get it, because i love boys, i have had sexual relationships with men, but i think i just need to get it out of my system!Please help. Thankyou, but just please don't judge me for being a 'sicko'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): First of all, don't worry or fret about it too much. To me, the answer is clear as day. To you, it's confusing because this is the first girl you've been attracted to. This girl has'nt changed you into anything you're not - she has made you question what you always were, which is bi-sexual. There's nothing wrong with this, and the only people that will judge you for it are immature, ignorant, people who are not worth knowing anyway. If this girl makes you happy - consider a relationship with her. Don't care about what anyone thinks, it's your life, do whatever feels right and makes you happiest.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 Hi, I'm bisexual. I first found out when I fell in love with my best friend when I was 16. She was bisexual and proud, but I wasnt sure about myself, untill we made love. I'm 25 now, married with 2 kids, and she is the same age, married with 3 kids, and we still love eachother!!! Our husbands are well aware of it, and always have been, (but they hate that we dont invite them to bed with us). It's okay, you are NOT a "sicko". She will always be my best friend and lover. We live on different land masses, visit when we can, and talk everyday. It's okay, don't feel weird. You might love her that way, and she might love you, and you might still love boys too. Some girls (like me) do!!! Have fun with it!
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