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anonymous
writes:I'm happily married, have had ups and downs. Recently met a man, we connected right away and I soon started to have feelings for him. So many things about him are different from my husband. He's also falling for me as well, we say we are good friends but both of us feel more. Is there something wrong with me. I know I should stop it but I question why I was attracted in the first place. So many years weren't good with my husband but he changed and it's been good. Am I harboring resentment???? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Why does it surprise you that you felt an attraction for another man? Guess what? There are thousands of other men you feel a connection with as well. We are built to feel attraction. The problem is that you allowed it to blossom and from what I can tell. talked about it with the other man. If things are good now, you're using the past as an excuse. Get your focus on your marriage and stop cheating. If you have been discussing this with the other guy, that is cheating. It's emotional cheating but a step in the wrong direction.
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