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How do I tell him that I want to take anal sex slowly?

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Question - (2 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mr writes:

I have told my new boyfriend that i love anal sex and i like it hard. well when i have tried it before and i found it uncomfortable, but then enjoyed it! how do i tell him i want him to take it slow when we try without him thinking i was just bigging myself up? x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008):

Sit on him.Then you can control things.

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (2 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntIf you need him to slow down, ask him to. Or tell him right away to take it slow at first. If he asks why, or even if he doesn't, try telling him it's because he's bigger/thicker/longer/whatever than your ex(s) were. The compliment should boost his ego and confidence without blowing your cover. Good luck =]

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