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female
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30-35,
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writes: I have told my new boyfriend that i love anal sex and i like it hard. well when i have tried it before and i found it uncomfortable, but then enjoyed it! how do i tell him i want him to take it slow when we try without him thinking i was just bigging myself up? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Sit on him.Then you can control things.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (2 December 2008):
If you need him to slow down, ask him to. Or tell him right away to take it slow at first. If he asks why, or even if he doesn't, try telling him it's because he's bigger/thicker/longer/whatever than your ex(s) were. The compliment should boost his ego and confidence without blowing your cover. Good luck =]
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