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female
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30-35,
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writes: i think im falling for a guy at college. i dont want to but its still happening and i hate that old feeling returning, of thinking about them always, staring at your phone, urgh iv had disappointing experiences and dont expect anything from him so why is everything logical being thrown out the window, urgh im so angry,,,, at myself!!!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (3 December 2008):
I'm going through the same thing. This is what I've learned so far... If your falling for a guy in college, go for it. Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend or no ties to a girl. How do you do this? Maybe ask nonchalantly one of his friends, make it cool... or even him. Get his aim if he has one. Guys seem to open up more on instant message.Find out what he likes, and maybe make a connection. Humor is always a good thing too. Just Be YOURSELF!!! DON'T beat yourself up for have feelings. It could be the start of something ;) but if its not, then it wont be the end of the world. It will take time to get over a crush to that amount. BUT who knows... you never know unless you take a little chance... Hope I helped~Christine ^.^
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