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writes:Right this might sound abit pathetic but i need help talking to a friend of mine. Thing is i've has strong feeligns for a really long time n i thought he did me but obviously not and people started making it worse but we sorte it all out between us n decided to put all that behind us n start again. Thing is i just cant make conversation with him whether its in person or over msn, i suppose i think way to hard about what to say but like if we;re sitting in lesson bored i just wanna talk to him and dont know what to say.it really hard because i cant just ask him stuff like what you doing tonight or what you been up to and stuff because that goes know where and thing is he dont talk back much to me either and i sooooo wish i could i just need to satrt a conversation or how do i suddenly come out with thing that would make him laugh?thing is when i dont try we just dont talk at all. =(For some reason he always seems to have a problem talking back to me even last year which is a reaosn why people thought he might like me and stuff but ya no but i really need help. Thanks.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 You say this guy is a friend of yours so I imagine the two of you have had conversations at some point? What did you talk about then?
Pick anything--movies, sports, how much you can't stand a certain class/teacher--and start a conversation about that. Talk to this guy like you would any of your other friends. The more comfortable you get talking to him, the easier it will be for you to eventually tell him how you feel about him...since it doesn't sound as if he would be the one to come out and say anything. Good luck =]
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reader, Teacake +, writes (3 December 2008):
 If you have the nerve to say to him, I hope it doesn't bother you that I am a little on the quiet side. I wish I was more talkative but I guess I'm a little shy.
Something like that, and that might start a conversation!
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