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male
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30-35,
*rax
writes:so I'm kind of confused about anal sex.. me and my girlfriend were joking about it when we first started dating (how gross it is). but then a few months ago my girlfriend told me she wanted to try it with me.. i kind of want to try it, yes because its supposedly realllly tight, and no because of the empathy factor (i wouldn't want it done to me so i wont do it)but thats not the issue here.. the thing is simple..1.) what are the best positions to have anal sex the first time?2.) what are the best lubricants to get for this?and 3.) is a condom necessary?
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reader, love-him  +, writes (2 December 2008):
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1. The best position for this is the 'doggy' position.. it would hurt less (make sure you use a lot of lube to minimise pain)
2. Just noticed the lube question lol.. durex do a lube in a purble tube (cant remember the name) something tingling i think.. that is good to use.
3. YEAH always use a condom.. also if you 'ejaculate' up her then it could get quite messy. So yeah use a condom for both that reason and protection, against STI's etc.
I hope i helped, feel free to mail me x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Make sure you are both ready and willing to try this and venture very carefully. I think you should read up about this before you try.Do all the necessary preparations to make you both more comfortable.
As for which position, I suggest "doggy"style.
As for lubrication, a KY jelly.
And yes, most defintely use a condom.
It could be lots of fun to explore new things, have fun!
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