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female
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36-40,
*ookin4Luv
writes: There's a guy that I work with that I like. We are the same age (24). We were smoking a cigarette outside together and he said he got off at midnight and to call him so we could hang out. I got his number and texted him around 12:20. He said he was going to this bar, that i dont like, with his friends. I said well we could just make out or something lol j/k. He seemed interested in that, because he sent a ;) back. Anyway, he said I could come pick him up. I said ok and he said do u know where i live? I said no, give me directions. Then i heard nothing back the rest of the night. He then texted me at 9am the next morning saying that he passed out and was real sick, but he wanted to make it up to me and he would get me a drink of my choice and we could try again the same time that night. Then at 8pm he texted and said he had to pick his friend up from the airport and he didnt want to cancel, but needed to. Then I haven't heard from him since. It's been 2 nights and last night I sent him a :) and that was it. I got no response. What is going on? He was calling me sweetheart and acting like he wanted to make out, but then just dropped me like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Sounds as if this guy is messing you around. Don't sit around and wait to here from him. In fact should he contact you again, don't be available to meet him. Pretend you are busy. Don't allow him to think you are desperate to meet up with him. And whatever you do, don't contact him first. Keep your dignity and let him sweat it out if he really wants to date you or get to know you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Forget this guy, he is very unreliable! If he is acting like this and you haven't even had a first date, imagine how a relationship with him would be! If I were you, I wouldn't contact him at all!!!! He's ditching you for last minute plans that in his mind, are more important. Don't get involved...
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