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Why is he shutting me out? I feel like he doesn't care anymore...

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Question - (2 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have been with my boyfriend for a wile now. Things seemed to be going well for a wile until a couple weeks ago. He stopped expressing that he loved me. He waits until i say and replys with a mumbled 'i love you too'. If i don't say it he doesn't either. I asked him about it and he said hes had a lot on his mind lately. I tried to ask what about but he shut up out. He won't be open with me at all and its beginning to worry me. I feel like he doesn't trust me or doesn't want to try to trust me. I feel like he doesn't care anymore. Is it wrong that I'm worried?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

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thank you all. I was getting worried because he was shutting me out and i don't feel like im in a real relatioship anymore. I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow so hopefully i an find out why he is acting like this cause hes never been like this before.

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A female reader, LUgirl United States +, writes (2 December 2008):

You should brace yourself for a breakup. A guy around that age doesn't know what he wants. When I guy starts to become distant like that, he is trying to prepare you for the worst.

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A female reader, pomgirl10 United States +, writes (2 December 2008):

pomgirl10 agony auntno but he may have things on his mind ( other girl) so just hope for the best and prepare for the worst. but you have every right to worry your a girl we tend to do that.

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