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writes:I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like??Sorry if that's a little graphic sounding but I am a bit shy and I really love this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI keep updating! He knows and he is happy.
Its my choice as to when (though I already knew this)
He says he will wait as long as it takes and is just glad... it can be something very special.
thanks for any answers to now- and any more- to my original question :) ... for when the time comes
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanother thing? do I just come out with it? Like just tell him Im still a virgin? or should I hint at it?
I am not ashamed of it.. quite the oposite actually!
I know how many girls he has had. only two before me. but they were both long relationships...
I also know he has never had a virgin before... so.. would he find this a good or bad thing..?
He has said he doesnt care what I may tell him about me because he loves me. (so long as it isnt betrayal but thats obvious and I would-could- NEVER do that to him!!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers.
I think he knows but I will be sure to make it 100% clear before ANYTHING happens. He knows I dont enter into anything lightly.. and his reply is always "only when YOU are ready. I'll be here. I'll look after you"
For me its a much bigger deal than most people seem to make it. I know it will be with him. But maybe waiting makesit more specil.
I honestly do love him. I know waiting is for the best. I just want to make sure it goes right when it does happen :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meant can, not cant
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI cant wait for full sex... I do love him. Ive had the lust/ infactuation thing before and this isnt it... its so much more. As I say.. I can wait- as long as I need to. He means everything to me...
Im not saying me being a virgin is a bad thing. it means I am and always was ONLY his.
I just dont want to do anything wrong/ that he wouldnt like.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Honestly, the best way to find out how he likes to be touched is to ask him. If you're too shy to ask, touch him and watch his response to different kinds of touching. You should be able to tell if he likes it or not ;)
If you feel like touching him with your hands is not enough but don't want to progress all the way to full sex, you could always try giving him a blowjob. Good luck =]
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reader, ryandude18 +, writes (2 December 2008):
 First talking to him about what you like helps, but really its expirence that will help you find out what you both like. Dont be too shy, he will like that
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reader, CherryCupcake +, writes (2 December 2008):
Darling, if he loves you back then he'll be happy with whatever you do but i know how you feel. If you wanna have sex then i recommend you going on top, he'll be pleasantly surprised and more than likely guide you with what youre doing. Try sitting on his penis and twisting your hips different ways.
I also think you should try oral (if you havent already), lick the patch of skin beneath his balls, he'll love it. Try sucking and gently tuggin on his balls too. And twirl your tongue round his penis whilst its in your mouth.
Tell him you want to kiss him allover, then do so, mens nipples are also sensitive so gently tease them with your tongue. Be a little forceful too, my boyf likes that.
Where sexy underwear, or give him a lapdance or a striptease. I can promise you that he'll like it.
Or maybe look at some porn together, partly for the fun and partly to give you ideas :).
Have fun, hope i was helpful!
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reader, apathyslastkiss  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Do you actually love him? There is a difference between love and infatuation/sexual attraction/lust. If you love this boy, and feel ready to commit, consider being married before you give away your virginity. If you really love him that much, why wouldn't you wait until you're fully committed in a marriage before you have sex with him?
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