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writes:i was in my room and experimetin with a ----- as my partents were not home, to start with it wouldni go in to my vigina and then i added a little water to it and it then when in really easy, but it went in really fast to andd i felt a small pain and i took it right back out and there was a small amought of blood on the -----, soo did i break my hymen and does this mean i am no a virgin anymore, but now i am happy that when i do have sex that the blood and the lasge amought of pain will be over am just wored about what to tell the boy when i am goin ot have sex if i tell him am not a virgin he might asked me who i had sex with befire him but a want him to no i am a virgin but what will i say if she dose not break my thorught ??please help :)xx
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reader, oldgerald  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 You're still a virgin, toys, fruit and vegetables, hand tools etc don't count. You have to have a penis inside you to qualify as a non-virgin.
Hymens can break for all sorts of reasons, sports or accidents.
If you are saving your virginity for someone special, make sure he is.
In the meantime have fun with toys etc, and put a condom on them if you don't know where they've been...
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reader, confessjess  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 I broke my Hyman before ever having intercourse and still experienced pain. Your still a virgin until you have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Yes dont worry you are still a virgin. You only lose your virginity when a penis enters the vagina.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Oh gawd the old "if you use tampons u will lose your hymen" rumor. I use tampons all the time. Still have it. As I have said before, it depends on what type of hymen you have. Don't sweat it.
You know back in the old biblical days, females were judged on their worth based on their hymens. This was a stupid patriarchal system made up by stupid old men.
If you have not had sex, you are still a virgin, so says coolnurse.com. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioniohh thanks katie, yes i do us tampons but i dont think i broke it then because i only used tampons a few times, and yeah i will be sure to tell a boy that they wont be anything the wiser as they dont no about our lassie things :)
it never went that deep it was all so fast it kinda jsut happen so and i pulled it back out as qucit as i could as i begain t panic :O:(x
thanks your are all stars :Dx
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reader, Katie_Loves_Dinasours +, writes (2 December 2008):
ok so I went throught this too except with tampons. If you break your hymen yourself then yes you are still a virgin. if you use tampons then you would have probly broken it anyway but if you are having sex with someone and they notice they dont break it and they ask who you have had sex with just tell him I use tampons and that broke my hymen.
Always love
Katie : D
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (2 December 2008):
 If it was a little blood, and it went in pretty deep, it could be blood from your cervix, not your hymen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): If you're accustomed to pleasuring yourself with toys you probably wont feel as much pain, oppose to if you don't; because your "entry hole" will be tight. However you may not always know what you'll feel until you do it. It also matters on the size of his manhood. But the bleeding will stop... it should.
I hope I helped =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthaanks for your feedback :), i thought i was still a virgan cause i never wanted to lose my virginity to a sex toy, bu thanks ^^. if i have broken my hyhem dose that mean that the pain + the blood are all over with ?, or will it still hurt to have sex the first time ?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): thanks :), that thats a lot of stess of my sholders :), i new that a was still a virgin, and now that the hymen maybe broken that will then mean that i have gotten the sore + blood part over with is it not ir will it will be sore when i deside to ahve sex ?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): To me masturbation isn't sex, so you're still technically a virgin. It is very possible the blood you saw was your hymen break. Unless you use toys to pleasure yourself all the time, most likely you'll remain 'tight'. Thats not necessary a bad thing. Not every virgin bleeds when they have sex, so don't worry about it. Just be comfortable, honest with the guy you choose to lose it to. Make sure the special guy is exactly that 'special'. You don't want any regrets.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (2 December 2008):
 You may or may not have broken your hymen, but you are most definately still a virgin. Hymen presence has nothing whatsoever to do with virginity. Hymens are often broken due to tampons or vigourous activity. Virginity is lost when you have sexual intercourse with a man for the first time. If you have not had sex, you are still a virgin.
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