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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for five years now. I belong to India and over here the concept is quiet different from European or Western culture. In our country they tell us sex before marriage is bad. Although we had these teachings, but whenever my bf and I got a chance, we made out as in kissing, sucking, licking, playing with genitals. We normally never get a chance because we are not even allowed to enter each other's rooms, but we arrange somthing like a hotel room or somthing once in a while. The problem is that we tried having sex around five six times but we just couldnt do it. I dont know where the problem lies. We dont get a lot of chance and when we do we really want to have sex but we just cant do it. We both are virgins, it would be our first time, but as much as we want it, it doesnt happen. His penis doesnt enter my vagina. I understand it would be his first time, but the same problem has happened five six times now. I believe that it should happen itself, the penis should find its way to the vagina but i dont know what happens. Maybe his penis is wide and my hole is small. Anyways, please help me we are deseperate. We really want to do it, we get a chance after months and when we do we, we are unable to do it.....desperate for help
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reader, NoTHiiNg ReAlLy  +, writes (3 December 2008):
the penis does not necessarily "find" the vagina, you guide it to the vagina..
maybe you are not wet enough down there. i would recomend you buy some lube or have him preform oral on you, meaning he licks, sucks, plays with your vagina with his mouth...
i think if you use enough lube and use your hand to guide his penis into your vagina you two will be able to have sex just fine.. i can give you any more advise you may need, so just message me if you want to talk.
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