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*ikkicutie
writes:How do i get him back? i am totally confused! i dated this guy for 5 months, he had just came out of a long term relationship. while we were together everything was amazing, he told me that he loved me and i replyed how i felt about him. i told him that i loved too. we split because he said he couldnt handle being in a relationship so soon so we called it off. on my birthday aload of us went out for a meal and drinks afterwards including my ex, we had a passionate kiss that night. the next morning he text me saying he was sorry for leading me on but it was fun. i told him how i still felt about him and he replyed he wanted the same as me, he told me that we stay the way we were and ease back into a relationship.the other day he was so nasty to me, telling me that we wernt in a rrelationship so stop acting like we are, how can he change from wanting a relationship to being horrible like that?we used to sleep together but after that night he was horrid to me he hsnt even spoke to me! what do i do? i need help!!! i want him back, i love him to bits but cant seem to get hold of him!
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reader, vikkicutie +, writes (3 December 2008):
vikkicutie is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your advice i really need it :)
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reader, Mr-M +, writes (2 December 2008):
 To be honest, and i'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but i don't think you will get him back, and in all honesty, i don't think it is in your best interests emotionally to take him back in to your life. He sounds like he is just stringing you along because he knows you still love him and is using you as an 'easy play'. Im sorry that that will sound harsh, but i'm just trying to be honest with you here.
My advice is to try and move on with your life and find someone who will treat you with respect and care, and who will love you back the same way you love them
Hope this helps
M
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reader, Nadera46  +, writes (2 December 2008):
It is very possible that he is preoccupied with another relationship. I've seen this many of times. In fact, I was was in it myself. I loved this man so much, or I was extremely infactuated. So infactuated that it blinded me of what was really going on. Perhaps, if you can set emotions aside for a moment you can really look inward at the situation. It makes you more keen and intuitive when emotions are set aside. Try it, and you will discover that perhaps your love wasn't completely mutual. He may have been going with the motions at the time, because he may have been confused or ambiguous as well. Perhaps, after a good rest, he came to the realization that his emotions were not true and he was misleading you. Please consider it honey. Everyone's situation may be somewhat different, but for some reason they all seem to have the same outcome -- us not getting what our hearts desire.
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