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30-35,
*orverRed27
writes:Okay so there is this boy. Im afraid i may have screwed things up badly ha.So ive seen him around school before when i was younger and its been 2 years since hes graduated. not very cute in high school but recently i was formally introduced to him at my friends house and he got a haircut and suddenly i was attracted to him. well that night i drank a little(not much), and i dont know if he drank any at all (well at least to the point of being drunk). I was in my friends room talking to people and i layed on the bed where he was sitting...everyone eventually left after talking for a little and he just sat there, then laid his head down with me...then he kissed me!!...but then backed off to see what i thought. i liked it so i went ahead and kissed him back. The whole night he kept saying "how come ive never met you before" etc... then he MADE me take his number down so i could call him. later that night i texted him by number and he got excited and said that he "wasnt opposed to getting to know me or anything, so feel free to stop by and say hi whenever"..well the next night i texted him cause i was at the same place and he was busy...then i texted him one other time after that and he seemed very stand offish and said he was busy with his music...i tried to talk to him and make the effort...but no response really. Then i finally saw him again and it wasnt really the same as before. and what confuses me is all his friends said he wasnt one to just hook up with someone for the night and just drop them, that usually he wouldve had some interest......well that night he showed no interest in me and sad to say, i got really drunk and wanted to kiss someone sooo bad...well his older brother happen to be rite next to me....and yeah thats rite i decided to kiss him...AND HE WALKED IN ON IT!(just kissing though). I didnt mean to at all. i really wish i could take it back...!!!Well i texted him the next day and told him how i really felt and that i was sorry even though ive only hung out with him twice. I feel such a strong attraction to him and think about him all the time, and his wit, his personality, and everything just captured me from the start!BOTTOM LINE....did i screw things up completely, or do i still have some what of a chance to try again??? (i dont talk to him much)
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reader, ForverRed27 +, writes (2 December 2008):
ForverRed27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell the only reason why i was confused was because everyone said he looked mad and tried to laugh it off, but that people could see through it...and the first time, i wasnt even drunk, i just had had a couple beers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): Sounds to me he saw you as just a one night thing. He hasn't shown intrest in you since you made out. You should really take the hint. So what if you kissed his brother? why should you feel guilty?
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