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What's the deal with men in their 40's losing interest in sex?

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Question - (2 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This question is for finding out, a very confusing secret.

I hear all the time , that man losing interest in sex, in their 40 -es, now they say this is aging. But I don't see that anywhere, I know at least 50 man in this age, but I don't know anything about they would be losing interest, as they are going out and dating or having sex wit their wifes.

SO ,IS THIS A MYTH, OR THE TRUTH, THAT MAN LOSING INTEREST IN THIS AGE, AND THEIR WIFES STAYS WITH NO SEX?

OR THEY ARE JUST BORED AND THEY NEED A FRESH LOVER WHO STARTS THEM UP?

Because the Viagra commercial says , more than 50% of man having trouble. So who are this man? The one with bad heart conditions, or the man who lost interst?

I would be super curious, to know what is going on, so even if you have a short answer , give me a chance.

I'm asking this ,because my experience with middle age man... My sister is going threw on this with her husband, and I think it's a lie ,that he has no interest. Because I see him looking at my ass a lot, but not my sister's. So ,what is going on????????

thanks

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (3 December 2008):

Danielepew agony auntSo, your sister's man is looking at you. He might have trouble having an erection, but a hot woman is always hot, and will always be hot for a man no matter his age. That doesn't mean it is right of you to feel that perhaps a fresh lover like you would "start him up again".

By the way, it is also wrong of him to look at your backside. We have eyes for looking and will always have them, but still we need to know where to stop, too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008):

If a man is in his forties, and has been married to the same woman for about the last 25 years, it's quite likely he'll lose interest in his wife. But the grass on the other side of the fence always seems to look greener, though it seldom is.

He's seen enough of your sister's ass, but is wondering what yours looks like, which is why he looks at it. He may want to see what it feels like too, but that's your decision as to whether you'll allow that. I couldn't recommend it. He probably wouldn't be able to take things any further than groping it if he has erectile dysfunction anyway.

Sometimes a fresh lover will 'start them up', but if he's got erectile dysfunction no amount of fresh lovers will manage to get it up for him. Viagra, Cialis and Levitra medication helps a great deal though, and someone who was previously impotent suddenly realises he does have a sex life after all.

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