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writes: Hi my recent girlfriend left me and says she dosent love me any more she has since dated but i desperetly love her and would take her back.but now out of the the blue she wants to be friends What does this mean is there a chance she might want to come back. I have told her i want her back. is there a chanc she might want to.Regards 07vectra Reply to this Question
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reader, spiderfan  +, writes (15 December 2008):
You are where I am my friend, my gf recently broke up with me as well and wants to do the friend thing. Where I sit it is a great opportunity for the both of you to rekindle what you once had. Don't go heart first into it though. Be her friend for the time being, when things get comfortable between you guys just casually flirt with her and see where it leads if it feels right things will improve with time. Figure out for yourself where things went wrong in the relationship and improve upon them from your perspective. Improve yourself before you try to get back with her. Try to figure out how she was attracted to you in the beginning of your relationship and go from there as well. Give it time and things will fall into place!
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (15 December 2008):
She might want to get make the only way for you to find out is to ask her directly... I wouldn't push her into anything... Maybe she just want you back in her life as a friend... What is meant to be will be... Just be cool about it don't tell her every 5 minutes you would take her back...In my experience it can get very annoying & push her away...& be careful she's not trying to play games with your head & your heart...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): As the previous person said, take it slow. Don't rush and don't be over keen. Try to work things out between the two of you. Try to resolve the problems that caused the slit between the two of you in the first place. Rushing into things blindly and hastily might set you up for another heartache and I don't want you to get hurt again. So yes, be friends and see how things develop from there.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): just take it slowly and see what happens dont rush things
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