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writes:hie.. my gf is 1 month pregnant.. we dont want to have this baby .. can u suggest me whether she has to go for an abortion or whether by taking some medicines or pills we can get rid of this baby????/ please reply at the earliest..thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): hey all........... its me.. lover boy who posted dis question....... well we have decided 2 go on wid the baby........ so no abortion n all.......... thanx a lot fr ur answers...... thanx 2 every 1..
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 The child did nothing to deserve to be killed. If you both don't want this child why don't you consider puting the child up for adoption. Many peole want and can not have children and would love to adopt your child. Please don't kill an innocent child because of an accidental pregnancy. If your gf's life is in danger if she goes on with the pregnancy then I suggest you consult with a physician. PLEASE THINK LOTS BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR FINAL DECISION. Thank you and good luck:)
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reader, survivor1987  +, writes (14 December 2008):
Please don't punish that poor innocent baby!! There are lots of people who want a baby and can't have one, like me. Check into adoption honey, abortion can hurt a girl to where it could kill her too or end her chances of every having another baby later on in life. Talk to your parents if you can. Get help, but please, don't hurt that baby!
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (14 December 2008):
 Yes. Between 4-8 weeks, she can have get the medication abortion. The abortion pill. She will get a shot in the doctors office, and be given a pill to take within 3 days of receiving the shot. Its an induced miscarriage. After 8 weeks, she will have to have a surgical abortion. So, if she wants the abortion pill, the time frame is very slim. Either abortion you two choose, you have until 12 weeks. After 12 weeks, it may become VERY hard to find a doctor to preform the procedure, or may become very expensive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Go to a doctor or nurse and ask how they would abort a baby at this stage. With younger ones an injection kills them cleanly but with older babies they mutilate them by cutting them up inside the womb and removing them piece by piece. The latter, in my opinion, is inhumane! Why not go ahead with the pregnancy and put the child up for adoption? There are so many couples out there who want children but can't have them =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): You sound so extremely immature. You don't seem like you have realised what is actually happening here. A little person is growing inside your girlfriend, a person that is made of you and her. An abortion is open to you if you both want it but you must seek professional advice first as this is a decision that will affect you both for the rest of your lives. Speak to someone who can help and advise you immediately. And seriously, if you really don't want to have a little baby anytime soon then you must be more careful with contraception in the future.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 December 2008):
 Go to a doctor. If you choose to get an abortion, please do not go to some seedy back alley doctor or take some pills that you've been told may work. Go to a clinic and talk about your options and they'll be able to handle things for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): You need to contact an advice helpline on the specific subject of abortion - I'm not sure anyone will want to advise you exactly how to get rid of an unwanted child. All I would say is that either way you will need to understand the full consequences (emotional) of your actions for years to come to think carefully.
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