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He said he will tell his friends he saw me naked! How do I get over him?

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Question - (14 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi.

I need help in getting over a guy that hurt me. It's a really bad situation. See, I was living w my friend and her brother in an apartment this semester. I guess me and my friend's brother fell for each other and started fooling around. I went past my limits with him (not sex, or even oral sex, but still) and that's what probably hurts the most. I kept telling him about my religion and how I didn't want to go far, but he wouldn't listen.

So that was going on for like 2 months. Recently, he randomly asked me to marry him and got me in his car and tried to elope with me. I said no, and he got pissed. Keep in mind we're both like 20. Then I told my friends about what happened and how crazy I thought he was. He found out about me telling people, and flipped a shit. Now he hates me, says he never cared for me, and that I am a slut.

He said he was just using me and testing me to see how far I would go, despite my religious beliefs. And he said he's going to tell all his guy friends that he has seen me naked and stuff. I hate this guy, it's eating me alive, how can I move on? I moved out of the apartment to get away from him, but I still think about him because of all the crap that happened between us....

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A male reader, Rhandy Philippines +, writes (15 December 2008):

Rhandy agony auntDont afraid, he is using you, dont take yourself into the fire when he traiting you like that, because I think he try to find ur weaknesses to get his bad intention. i rather suggest you to face it and move out from his sight.

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