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writes:I'm really confused about what happened with me and this girl I knew. A year ago, when we were still in high school, we had a class together and I fell for her. I sat behind her and we ate lunch together with some other people. Anyway, it got to be the last few days of the semester and I decided to try and ask her out. I'm normally a really shy guy so this was a big thing for me. I asked if she wanted to get some lunch and she said sure. She told me to meet her in the commons area the next morning and I did. We had finals that day so we were going to get out at lunch time. I met up with her and she gave me her nuumber and said that she had to take her sister to the doctor today and I told her that I would give her a call after I was finished with my finals, (she left first). Well I got done and tried to give her a call, she didn't answer. I called again and still no answer so I left her a message. She never called me back which left me heartbroken. When Christmas came around after talking with a friend about this I thought I'd try to call her again. No luck. So I just left her a message saying Merry Christmas.So next semester as I'm going about my classes I notice her walking out of her class. It turned out that we both took the same direction to get to our next class. So I decided to walk with her and talk. Our friendship started back up and I walked with her everyday after that class. I never brought up why she never called me because I didn't see it as that important anymore. I was just happy to have her walking beside me again. Valentines day rolled around and I thought I'd do something special for her so I went out and bought some roses. I wrote a quote down on the tag but I didn't write my name down because I figured she could have guessed who it was from. I knew where she worked and so I dropped by and told a lady at the front desk to please give them to her. Once again, I didn't want her to say who it was from. Bad idea not to hand-deliver them? This is where things started to hit the fan. The next day of school I walked around the corner and noticed that she wasn't walking in her normal direction, instead she took a different way to get to her next class. I thought that she was just shy and needed to time so I didn't bother her. However, after that day I have never spoken to her again.Now I'm in college and I used to see her almost everday. I tried to call her a couple times more in hopes that she might call me back. I still never got in touch with her and she doesn't even notice me. I know this because I deliberatly stepped in front of her vehicle just to let her know that I'm still here. et, to this day I don't think she has even made eye-contact with me. Can someone please tell me what happened?
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reader, schtick02 +, writes (14 December 2008):
schtick02 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for answering this, it has really been eating at me all this time. I'll have to wait until the next semester begins to get a chance to see her. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): maybe she figured out that you have fallen for her and she doesnt want it to be that way.. she must already have gone through a bad relationship, thats why she might have the fear that you are not gonna be the perfect one for her.. if you love her truely, dont hesitate just go and get herr.. tell he directly how much you love her.. and if you are sending a message write your name.. hehe.. be brave, and get herr.. good luck!
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reader, survivor1987 +, writes (14 December 2008):
Honey, I think something may have happened to her there in the beginning.The fact that she blew you off time and time again seems to be a trust issue of some sorts, or the fear of a relationship.. or perhaps she is just the shy type. I would let it ride, and if you see her again, ask if she would like to catch a movie, or maybe a cup of coffee..and give her a smile..and the chance to decide if it sounds good to her.If she avoids you again, move on,buddy.
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