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writes:I think i may be turning gay?what do you reckon, kinda messed up innit?Hey, I'm 17 and a boy.it appears confusing to me, but hopefully you'll understand more at the end.Anyway here goes, i pretty much like girls but over the past 12 months things have been 'different'. By different i mean i have kissed a girl once, really been fascinated by men, watching gay porn, getting hard off torso's in the gym class lockers, swiftly glancing down to see bulges etc. And i was fascinated by gay sex so i'd by a long sausage liek a bratwurst and use it as a dildo effectively, which i liked, plus before my dad split with his ex, i used to slip on her clothes and makeup and pretend i was a cross dresser(im not saying all gay men dress up as women either, btw).Anyway i get much harder off men than i do with women now, despite my large admiration of breasts. I often fantasize about me being with a man, sharing activities sexually mainly, but i've never been attracted to a man, just his features i just feel my whole world has been turned on its head.i know you on here don't like to be categorized, but i really don't know what i am here.I have had opportunities with girls in the past 6 months about 6 times, and only one has came to anything with the rest sort of deteriorating quickly. I haven't really came close to a man, because they don't know i feel this way.I feel as though i should be with a girl because all my mates are, and i think i want to be.But i really want to try and see what being with a man is like, im intrigued.I don't understand what i am, what should i do? is this normal? is it the puberty/hormones or am i past that? Am i Gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): It sounds like you are really into men and I think that you'll most likely end up having sex with a man.You sound bi b/c you like girls but the whole dildo thing,and you enjoying it,wonting to sleep with a man as well.Most of your story is about wonting to be with a guy,so you may also wont to reflect on that as well.You have to not only look in the now but in your future as well do you wont kids and a wife.Do you wont to be with a man.All I'm saying is don't get cotup in the moment and do something you'll regret,make it for you b/c its your life in the end and I'm just another voice giving my opinion.
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reader, dt1213  +, writes (14 December 2008):
hey. so it seems that youre a bit confused but you should really know that there is nothing wrong with being gay. i have an older sibling who is gay as well, so ive heard that it takes much courage to admit to it. You said that you feel like you should be with a girl BECAUSE all of your mates are. however, you didnt say that being with a girl makes you happy. Youre decision should really reflect on youre own feelings, not everyone elses. Life is way too short to please everyone else, or to be ashamed of who you are. Just make sure in the long run, you choose what you want. If you are day dreaming about being with a guy, then you most likely belong with one. good luck to you though, and i hope you find out what you truely want for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): hey
if you have had sex with a man and felt right then you may be gay, if you do the same with a woman. maybe you are bisexual.. I believe bisexuality does exist..
you are very young yet. this could be a phase as I went through this phase too and I know I am def straight!
give yourself time and remember, your family and friends should love you the way u are
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 hey simon..well i think its just the harmones talking..your saying it yourself that you should be with the girl then whats bothering you..welll i think your just bi curious..its fine everyone goes through a phase..watching gay porn does not make you gay hun..take it slow..date women and if u still feel that u would be better with a man..then give that a try and u can judge yourself if that was a phase or if u were just bicurious or your gay..you can be the best judge!!!!alll the best
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