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How can I make this less painful for her?

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Question - (14 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend is a virgin (im not). Recently we started having sex. Usually she im hurting her or im being too hard when im being gentle as possible. She'll in so much pain and makes me stop. Then we wait a bit for her to recover then try again its like a pattern. How can I make this less painful for her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

finger her, a lot. like, from one finger to two to three and if shes not makin you stop, even four. keep doin this and eventually her vag will get used to the feeling, and then sex will be much better.

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A male reader, shadopaw United States +, writes (15 December 2008):

shadopaw agony auntwell me and my girlfriend was having this same problem the best way that helped her is have her be in control that way she'll know how much and how hard and tell her 2 be on top but reverse cowboy style i hear this will ease the pain and after a while the pain should go away....hopefully

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