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*acquelinecantelme
writes:ok so theres this guy hes a year older but i hang out with almost ever day he recently broke his phone and sence then we havent been talking as much but sence then i realized that i think i might be in love with him i mean we are not dating but hes told me he likes me alot and we have kissed and hes fingured me and with that hes the first guy Ive let do that with out being in a relationship how do i know if hes in love with me to im so confused and honestly+dont+know+what+to+do+ Reply to this Question
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reader, jacquelinecantelme +, writes (15 December 2008):
jacquelinecantelme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i know for a fact he broke his phone because recently he was in a dirt bike accident and hes my neighbor
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reader, dt1213 +, writes (14 December 2008):
hey. well to start off, im not going to classify all men as bad people, but you have to watch out for thoes who are only trying to get something out of you. its great that you feel like youre falling in love, but you really should make sure that you both are on the same page first. Trust me, the last thing you want to do is fall sooo deeply in love with a kid who doesnt feel the same way. i mean not to sound stalkerish, but you can always think up some sort of way to find out if hes lieing about his phone. even if you have to ask his friends, or call from a blocked number even. it might sound insane but atleast you will find out instead of wondering weather or not you are being lied to. amd if in the end, he is nt lieing to you, then hey, he might be worth it. But if he is, then dont waste your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hey girl,are you sure he really broke his phone? Or maybe he just doesn't want to talk to you lol. And he's probably not gonna ever wanna talk to you if you tell him that you love him. I think you shouldn't have let him get that far with you unless you guys were in a relationship. But yeah, I recently went about that far with a guy, and it made me get feelings for him, but I realized he was just using me. So I bounced. Be careful girl, and try not to confuse the romantic feelings you get the first time ur touched with love. As for him being in love with you? Assume he isn't, until the day he proves it to you by his actions. Is he there for you? Does he stand up for you? Want to spend time with you besides touching? Then you'll know he loves you.
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