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writes:Hello,I've been with my G/F for a long time and have always found her and her brother to have an awkward but really good relationship. Everyone thinks so too that know them. She is older than him and when asked about their relationship with eachother they always say they have been there for eachother and love eachother dearly. I mean they talk about sexual issues and experiences with eachother, have watched porno together since god knows when and since I've been on the scene watch porno together with no awkwardness. Nothing has ever gotten sexual while I was there but am I right to think that they might have experimented with each other?Also we have talked a lot about threesomes (me and G/F) and she has had one before I came on the scene but I haven't. I've been wanting one and she doesn't know if she's secure enough to see me with another girl. I suggested a MMF then and although she gets off on the idea still isn't comfortable with it. Maybe she would be with her brother?I figure if they have experimented before maybe still will and would be a way of getting her comfortable with the idea? You know it would be discreet this way and would be the ultimate turn on cause of the taboo factor.Suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): thanks for the replies. I know it would be the ultimate turn on for me to guide his dick into her and see their forbidden love for another come true. I would love to tease him with his sister and then give him the ultimate pleasure. Seeing the look on her face and how they would react woould be awesome.
I like the advise of the porn with them. I think he has left the room sometimes to jerk off too when we watch porn. I'm thinking i might let him catch me masterbating then talk to him about his love for his sister and try to arrange something. This type of sex is exciting and Im sure they would love it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): I want to retract what I said in my December 16 about directly asking your sister whether she experimented with her brother. Rather than confronting her directly about this, ask her again about the MFM threesome. When you talk about it, ask her if there's a guy that she feels she can trust, that she has a good friendship with, and who she would comfortable with in a sexual situation. If she doesn't volunteer a name, tell hre you have a suggestion, based on what you've seen. Then ask her "what about your brother (or use his name here)?" If she asks why, tell her you've noticed that they talk about sexual isues and experiences with each other, and watched porn together. So she seems to be very comfortable talking about sex with him. Plus, he probably would not tell anyone he had a threesome with his sister, for fear of how people might react, so she could trust him not to tell anyone.
I think at that point, she will admit that she has had some kind of sexual experience(s) with her brother. If you are able to use this suggestion, be sure and post back here to tell those of us here how she reacted to your suggestion and if she agreed to do the threesome with you and her brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): To both the original poster and the male poster who posted yesterday, I failed to mention in my December 15 post that I've read a lot of posts from women and girls who said they learned how to perform handjobs and blowjobs on guys by practicing on their brother. In some cases, the girl accidentally walked in on her brother masturbating and asked if she could stay and watch. Sometimes that led to the brother asking his siter to help him masturbate, which then sometimes led to the girl giving her brother a blowjob. Other girls just went to their brother and asked them to show them how to perform handjobs and blowjobs. So this kind of sexual experimentation does happen. One study I read that surveyed found that 30 percent of those surveyed had some kind of consensual sexual experimentation experience with their opposite-sex sibling.
The Times of London on July 15 also ran an article from a woman who admitted she had a long, sexual relationship with her brother starting when she was a young teenager, until her brother got married at age 30. You can find it by doing a Google search for "I had sex with my brother" and the article will come up.
To both of you young men, I would say perhaps the best thing to do is if you have concerns, talk about them gently with your girlfriend. Tell her you just have to ask because what you see doesn't make sense. Tell her you will understand and will still love her no matter what her answer is. Then you will probably finally found out the truth.
Other sites you can go to ask advice about this issue is the Hip Forums at www.hipforums.com, and also Go Live Wire at www.golivewire.com.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Ok I too have the same situation... Ummm well not quite!
My girlfriend and I have a great sex life and I enjoy her very much! She is the most beautiful thing in the world to me and I cherish her dearly! But the question I have is for "tainal" or people like her. My girlfriend and her younger brother seem to have an unusual appearing relationship as well. My question is, is it really that unusual? Even their parents think they are messed up the way they joke about things and sometimes touching. I know they talk about their sex lives, not deeply but do talk about it. Is this just a strong bond? I know they have love for one another but don't think they are in love if you know what I mean. I guess I just have brothers and aren't really like that and different situation so I find it hard to comprehend their relationship at times but am not that bothered by it. Just curious if there was anything I should worry about, especially after reading this post!
Sorry for jacking your post, I have read about such instances but don't think I would advise it. Im pretty liberal but must say don't ever try to force anything and make sure all parties would be comfortable. Hell I want a threesome too with her and would interested in both types of threesomes if she was interested but again would never force anything and open communication is the key.
But lets face it buddy, there has to be someone better than your brother-in-law so to speak! Besides it would make family gatherings a little weird unless you are all into that thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): You may be right that your girlfriend and her brother may have experimented sexually on and with each other. That kind of thing happens more often than people might think, especially if the brother and sister are close. Some have even go so far as to have a full sexual relationship with each other. I think you should just go with the flow, and not press your GF on this issue. I think sooner or later you will find out the truth, but what happened in her past really isn't any of your business, unless it's still going on now. As far as them watching porn and discussing sexual techniques with each other, you migth tell her that you find that odd, and ask if they have always been like that with each other, because you don't know many brothers and sisters who do that kind of thing with each other.
As far as the threesome, you could just mention that it might be easier for her if the other guy in the threesome is someone she knows and trusts. If she wants her brother to be part of the threesome, she will tell you that herself. I don't think you should push the issue.
To the last female poster who said she has done these kind of things with her brother, are you talking about watching porn or discussing sexual issues with each other? Why did you do these kind of things with your brother?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): one word..
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (14 December 2008):
I've done the same things she has done with my brothers but I think your a bit of a pervert to think shed want her brother to bang her.. if I were you I woudnt even take it there with her... & if I were her & you came at me with that nonsense first I'd curse you out, then I'd have my brother beat you bloody & after that I'd dump you... that sounds really sick that you'd be turned on by the idea of her brother sleeping with her...would you bang your sister? probably not!
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reader, Minxy68  +, writes (14 December 2008):
Hmm! I'm not sure if the "turn on" is just for you or your girlfriend as well. I think it is a taboo subject and I think you should tread very carefully if you talk to your girlfriend about this. Brothers and sisters can have a very open bond/friendship. Judge with caution.
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