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writes:I am having trouble with my girlfriend. We have been together for 1 year 7 months and 11 days. I know weird I keep count but so does she. It's not hard to remember it really. Anyways we have been fighting a lot lately and it's been bugging me. I really don't know why. We are a distance relationship couple. We went to school together back in San Diego which is our home town. We are both athletes which is how we met and how I left. I am a year older so I left on a scholarship to a baseball school. we were two hours away from each other which was ok. The next year I transfered again and am now half way across the country. She is still in California and I am in Oklahoma. I try and keep contact with her as she wants me to but it seems the more I try the more she gets upset. Sometimes I just think it is the stress from missing me. I won't ever give up on her or break her heart because I love her. She is an amazing person but we argue over dumb stuff. Sometimes its me and sometimes its her. Christmas is coming and I finally get to go home. With all this fighting I want to make things better and tell her that I don't want to fight because it kills me. How do I tell her I love her but I don't want to fight. I suck at writing letters by the way. I can write for days but it seems like I'm too strong with my words.Pretty much I'm asking if someone can give me an answer on how can I comfort her more and make her believe that everything is going to be ok. What I mean by ok is, that I'm not going to leave her, I'm not looking at other girls, I'm not going to forget about her, and I want to be there for her when she needs me and when I want to hear her voice. How can I tell her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): When you finally meet up with her hold her look into her eyes for ages then hold her and tell her all that stuff about loving her and that your not going to leave her and you don't look at other girls rarararthen just hug her for ages and let her be the one to pull away. Act the part of a love freak, act like you're completely obssessed with her, always look at her, talk to her, kiss her, hug her for every second your with her then she will feel loved and not feel as uncomfortable or want to fight with you about you being far away when you are away.
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