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*azmin31
writes:hello i need some help..there is a big party coming up soon and this boy in my school who is 14 said at the party he is going to finger me...i want him to do it because all my other friends have been fingered by boys but..i want to know if its alright because i have never started my period,I'm 13,could i still get fingered if i havent ever started my period??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): dont do it.
its better after you have sex. so wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hey, you're too young, blah blah blah . . .That said, there's nothing anatomically wrong with what you want to do. Just be careful, and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): "A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):
YES YOU CAN get fingered before you get your period. :] first times always the best time, as long as hes experienced :]"
.. you can but why would you want to??
because all your friends have that is like the most stupid excuse ever!
do you even have feelings for this guy?
he sounds like a desperate horny wannabe player guy to me and if i were you i would not let him finger me
the first time is no where near always the best time! whoever wrote that obviously has no real experience..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): YES YOU CAN get fingered before you get your period. :] first times always the best time, as long as hes experienced :]
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 You should NOT get fingered just cos all your friends have been.Honey, that's basically the worst reason ever.You should wait till you're in a relationship with someone you care about and trust before you start getting involved in sex or sexual behaviour. Especially by some boy at a party who's telling you what he's going to to do you, like you don't have a choice.This guy sounds like a jerk.There's a whole lot more you have to think of besides getting your period. You're opening up a big can of worms right now. I'm not saying you gotta wait till you get married, or whatever. but when you look back and remember the first time a boy touched you in your most private place, do you want it to be because you were ready and comfortable and in love or because 'all your friends had already done it?' and you wanted to catch up?Talk to an older girl you trust (I'm talking over 17) and she'll likely say the same thing.
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reader, thebaystud22  +, writes (14 December 2008):
I don't believe you should have that happen to you. You are not ready to have this happen. You have plenty of time for that stuff when you are older. Just because your friends are doing it does not mean you have to. You have feelings for this boy I'm guessing but just because you have feelings does not mean you should do what everyone else is. You are your own person and you choose what you want out of relationships. You should know what you feel is right inside. I think your going to get alot of help so I'll let someone else explain to you more. I hope everything works out for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): you want to get fingered because all your friends have been fingered???? That sounds like a pretty stupid reason. Please try to have some respect for yourself girl! At least get a proper bf.
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