A
female
age
30-35,
*onest eyes
writes:Ok so i want to have sex soon but of course i want to wait for marriage or at least until i'm 18. But if i do have sex soon it'll be with someone i trust and know. So do u think i should wait. Thanks your opinion is appreciated.By the way i'm very aware of the consequenses of sex, getting pregnant, stds, etc. Thanks again
View related questions:
std Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, petina1  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 My mum used to say 'you can have sex with anyone, why him?'
But it really is true, there's loads of young people your age who see it as a hobby, next to computers and tv. Just sex, not love or commitment. So I would wait and not rush at all because relationships are so nice to be worked on over time, getting to know each others likes/dislikes etc. Trust me, as soon as 'sex' enters the equation, then theres trouble, if you have not got the maturity to handle the feelings and emotions that come with it, then you are just another statistic or a notch on someones bed post. So do consider seriously of waiting a few more years and really getting to know the guy who will be sharing your most intimate self.
Making love with someone who you love and who loves you is the best sex in the whole world. Those who just play at it won't understand.
hope this helps.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): This isn't something we can decide for you. You sound incredibly sensible. However you haven't told us your relationship status! Don't just lose it to someone you're not in a relationship with. When you are with the right person you will know if you want to do it. That could be before or after marriage. But whatever you choose, don't let people pressurise you into going further than you want to =]
...............................
|
