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writes: My husband is healthy and does not have any reason for his lost sex drive. It makes me very frustrated, as if I would know he is sick, I would help him and understand him. I would never let him down... This way, I don't know what to think and makes me so angry and frustrated, that I can't help it, but to tell him how I feel, and how afraid I am for our future.He says, it drives him crazy, that I can't stop asking him to explain this, and now I'm afraid to ask, as he says, I make things worse. I told him, if he would be sick I would understand him, but this way, I feel very puzzled, and looking for answers constantly.Am I right to feel angry and frustrated, or I should just accept him with no answers? Does he have a right to turn me off when I want to know why? Or it's really wasted energy, and I should just leave if I can't stand it any more? He really feels very intimidated and many times, he just shares the bed with me without look or touch. I find this a very bad sign. How should I deal with this, if I really want to stay with him?
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Maybe he should seek drs help might be something like depression or just a little mid life crisis it happens just be patient dont ask just . Just do little things that you think might turn him on ad some spice to the relationship do something spontaneous .. Sometimes its not they arent attracted and dont want to its just so many times we gt in the same rut without realizing it .. so dont pull away but let him know that no matter what you are going to be there .. If its about the want or the crave for sex master bate its not a sin nor is it a crime gotta do what ya gotta do Im sure he will come around .........
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reader, Minxy68  +, writes (14 December 2008):
Im not sure how long you have been married or how good his sex drive was, but I do think that this has to be talked about as you dont sound happy with the loss of an intimate relationship. I really can understand your frustration, only you can decide if you think that you cant handle this. If he wont talk to you I cant see what else you can do. Try backing off for a while as that could be adding to his pressure. See how the loving,talking and getting to know each other again side of things again. I wish you luck.
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