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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I would like to say sorry for my weak English first. I think it's hard for you to make sense. I have a coworker (Mr.A) and he's calm, he likes sitting at his corner. The first time that I came here I heard something about him and his girlfriend. OK, that time I never thought anything about him. And it was almost 8 months that we hardly talked to each other except asking him for a help.... until my birthday, the newcomer said to me "happy birthday....." But Mr.A never knows before, because of the conversation between us is too hard to understand clearly during us. But he surprised me very much, he asked me what cake would you like?... I answered him "whatever.... up to you" and in the afternoon that day he brought up a cake for me. I can't tell you how I feel, I was really impressed with him.Everyone was talking about what happened because they never got cakes or anything for their birthday. Recently I got news about him, he and his girlfriend had broken up and made me know why he looks thinner and sadder than the past. And in the evening I sent a thank you message to him that I was very happy, thank you for your cake..... And he replied me "he knows if I had a party I wouldn't invite him" this message made me feel so bad but I didn’t brave to explain about everything happened and I keep it in my head until now. For him he is a good guy, I learnt something about him. I heard and saw his opinion or his mind. He is an honest man, not hussies, But his girl never knows... During the new comer stay in the office he always observed me and him. Sometimes that I do something for the new comer he always teases me... and now the new comer go away, he came back to calm again... but a week before he gave the cake on my birthday I dreamed of him "he hugged me softly and put his head on my groin" and the next day I told him that I dreamed of him he asked me" you fell in love with me"..... But now he still do something same, calling my name "......." I ever asked him "why do you call my name?" He told me; He liked this name. I don't understand what he meant? Is he not interested in me, likes me or what does he feel about me? Now I have been keeping a lot of questions and some of the answers which I want to explain to him, but I dare not. What should I do? Please answer me because I don't understand about that sigh from him. Thank you for your kindness.
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reader, salvadda  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 This man likes you and in his own way is teasing you or flirting with you. If you feel the same way don't let your english stand in your way. I am sure that he will try his best to understand what you want to say. Don't worry about guessing things just try to be forward and ask what you want to know this way you won't have to second guess things. There is no reason to be afraid he sounds like a nice man. This way you know the truth from him. Your english is very good.
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