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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi Im in real need of help. I cant get over my bfs past, I think I need help. Im so insecure about him. I love him dearly but feel as though Im pushing him away. Im worried he still loves his ex, as he used to talk about her a lot when we first got together, and everyone reassures me he doesnt but I cant get over it, Im so insecure! I get jealous over everything. When he stares at other women I go mental, but everyone does it! I cant help it! Is there any cure for getting over being paranoid, insecure and jealousy, as its tearing our relationship apart. We always argue cus I bring up his past, as he was a pretty awful man, I know hes changed, but I always seem to bring him down! Please any one give me advice I would be so grateful. x
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 You must trust him, and dont let her pass ruin the future, past is past and the importance now is the coming future for both of you, you need to face and accept of what his past, remember that before you meet him, his past is already there, you cannot change the past, but you can save the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): what you are doing will certainly ruin what you have,my ex boyfriend constantly brought up my past and we ended up arguing as i wanted to forget my past and look into the future but he found it impossible to let go even though i spent most of the time reassuring him of my love for him,eventualy he pushed me so far away i dreaded seeing him an then he dumped me,which i can say was a relief as i was just existing in a faded relationship
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