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Should I go for her again or not?

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Question - (14 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2008)
A male Lebanon age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello agony aunts, like everybody here, I've a problem.

I've been in love with a girl for about a year now. We dated three times and we always ended breaking up because she couldn't stop thinking about horses and horse related activities. We wouldn't see each other on week ends because she had to train and/or see friends she rode with.

Yesterday the both of us were invited to watch some French stand up comedians show on tv at her best friend's house. She sat on the same couch as me, and she slowly ended up in my arms as we watched tv. I slowly manuvered under the pillow she was holding between her arms, felt her breasts, first over and then under her bra.

I could feel her body temperature rising, her breathing becoming harder, swallowing her saliva every minute or so.

But she just didn't do anything. She watched tv as if nothing was happening, laughed etc. She did ask me to stop when my hands were visible to other people, but there were no other signs of rejection.

A couple of hours earlier I had heard her talking very smoothly on the phone with a fat and ugly bad friend of mine. My best friend, who is also a confident of hers, informed me that the two were at a Akon concert the night before, had kissed once, but that he wasn't sure if they were dating.

My question is if should go for her one more time.

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A female reader, Jodiesmith United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2008):

My advise is go for it, you dont know if you dont try plus, girls like it when you put the effort in, chase chase chase!! :-)

Good Luck!!

J xx

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2008):

AngelofLove agony auntSounds as if this girl is not seriously into you or anyone else. Both of you are in different places right now.

To avoid getting hurt again, better look for a girl that may be at the same wave length as you.

Good luck

Angel of Love

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