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writes:My boyfriend is a very soft and gentle person when it comes to sex, but, it doesn't work for me! I like to be treated roughly when we're making love but it's always a struggle to try and get him to be a little crazier in the sack because he's afraid that he's going to hurt me. I was wondering if I could get some ideas on how to damped his fear, but light his passion and intensity. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): i hit my bf lol and yell at him and tell him to be rougher
then hes rougher :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): ask him to be rougher? be rougher on him encourage him to be rougher on you?i sort of have the same problem!
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reader, sommerslover  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 Show him an example of how you would like to be treated. If you like being tossed down on the bed, or having your clothes ripped off of you. Give him some ideas of what you want him to do by showing him. If you like your hair pulled, or you butt spanked, let him know that too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hey i like my boyfriend to be rough aswell i just tell him grab my hands and thrust me down and he's too scared to hurt me i just carried on callin him wimp and chicken and whispered ill do anythin he wanted sexually in his ear tha tipped him right off and it great if anythin you want done just talk to your boyfriend bargain a lil in some ways youll both get what you want cuz guys like girls to be rough with them some times hope i helped not good at givin advice lol x x
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