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36-40,
anonymous
writes:this question is for the guys..what is the best way a girl can get your attention?Say when simply "going out for a coffee"..?i dont want to appear overly flirty- i want to be seen as fun and interestingguys tips would be great
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Be yourself, it always works with a lot of girls like me. The guys actually like you if you talk to them and get out of your shy zone and be yourself.
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reader, core_confusion  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 Firstly, be yourself. If YOU want to get his attention, make sure that it is YOU that you are showing him. That said, eye contact is a good start, not too much - dont stare or anything, but when he is talking, make good eye contact, listen to what he says and prove that you are listening by saying something / asking something related to what he has just said.If you lean forward slightly it will imply that you are interested - body language can be quite important.If you're going out for a coffee, wear something that will give you confidence and makes you feel attractive, and he will pick up on that self confidence, dont go too far though, get his attention without giving the game away.Ultimately, most if not all men have a bit of an ego and we all love to have it stroked once in a while - compliments will get you a long way and will let him know that you like him. Depending on how comfortable ou are with him and the situation you are in, a little physical contact can also work. Allow your hands to touch without it being obvious and see how he reacts.Good luck and have fun!
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