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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: ok there is this guy ive been seeing for 5 months now. well all of a sudden he is having second thought about us he said hes scared im too nice go figure and that hes worried because i have kids and he dont well first off hes 7 years younger then me anyways i only see him when he has time same thing with the phone too he never calls but he sends me text messages all the time and confuses me so i asked him if he was still confused about me and he says yes. i also called nim and asked him if i should just give up on him and he said i wouldnt so what do i do cause unfortunately i love him and its hard for me
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reader, petina1 +, writes (14 December 2008):
Makes me wonder what else he is doing when he's not seeing you. Some men don't want the responsibilty of other peoples kids either. I would be wary of him, I think if you keep pursuing him he could hurt you. He sounds like he cannot say what he really means because he's scared to do that. I don't trust 'ditherers'. You must make him come right out and say exactly what he wants from you, then at least you will know where you stand. hope this helps.
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