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writes:what is the deal????? my sister said she has a weird fetish of sort, and asked my opinion. here goes.She wants her boyfriend to pretend to break into her house, and pretend to rape her! she loves really hard core sex, and thinks its sexy when a guy gets rough with a girl..(dont ask!)I think she is mental.. is there really people out there who get off on rape fantasy? Reply to this Question
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reader, Too Sensitive +, writes (15 December 2008):
ha-ha, I just replied on the role-playing suggestions question with this very fantasy! It's not that she wants to be raped in real life by a stranger by any means. She wants her boyfriend to do it - obviously she knows him and feels safe with him.
When I was married over 20 years ago, my husband and I had great fun playing out this fantasy. It was extremely erotic.
It's a gentle form of dominance without getting into hardcore S&M, if you're not into that sort of thing (and I'm not!). If you are an independent person, take-charge, and a control freak (like me), this is a great way to experience the other side of things...when you have someone else in control, someone else taking advantage of you against your will (rather, you pretend it's against your will - it's all part of the game, all part of the role-playing). It becomes a psychological thrill, and can be a real turn-on. It just depends where your head is at, what type of person you are, and what it is that you like.
And here I thought all along this fantasy was common!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I saw this on House. The guy ended up going into shock from allergy. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): No thats normal its even on that new movie 4 christmases! People have all different kinds of fantasies!
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reader, godireallyneedhelp  +, writes (14 December 2008):
To each their own I guess, at least she doesn't want to go out and rape other people
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reader, Chippymunk +, writes (14 December 2008):
 I think I can understand your situation but to quote Sigmund Freud, "The only unnatural sexual behavior is none at all." So as long as people are fulfilling their fetishes in a safe way, then I won't pry into it too much. Would you believe there are people who get turned on by playing with/eating feces? Fetishes can be almost anything and is different for everybody. We all have our own fetishes, kept secret so people wouldn't judge us. Your sister told you because she trusts you (very much so), most people would not even think of telling family members what turns them on! If you tell her she's mental then it may break her trust in you and she may never tell you things again, even things that may be harmful to her (abusive husband for example).
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