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writes:hiim a virgin and my girlfriend is not we have talked about sex and im all ok for it however i was wondering what would i do at the end when im am about to ejaculate i plan to wear a condom but i just dont know what to do thanks
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reader, daletom  +, writes (15 December 2008):
Any way that is satisfying and respectful to both you and your partner is a "good way". The truth is, you won't have much idea of what that is until it happens.
I almost always stay coupled with my wife and we cuddle, kiss, talk, etc while I grow soft inside her. When we were younger, we sometimes did it a second time without ever uncoupling. Those aren't real options for you with the condom - but the majority of people, both men and women, like to hold each other, be held, etc during the afterglow. Just be aware that "protection" is still necessary!
Your very first time is a special case. Like the other poster said, you will probably cum too soon but the mental and emotional factors may have more importance to you. You will probably be sorting out a whole range of entirely new feelings. You may want to be left by yourself to do that, or may want to hold your partner forever. You may want to cover-up as quickly as possible, or enjoy being naked with your partner. You might be crying with emotion, or giddy with euphoric laughter. Somebody described the feeling after first-time sex as being "emotionally more naked than any other time in your life", and I can identify with that feeling.
If you have made a good selection for your partner she will have some understanding and respect for what you're feeling and will work with you. And, she'll gently teach you how SHE likes the sex to end.
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reader, ipodman +, writes (15 December 2008):
ipodman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthese answers do help in a way however what im asking how to i end sex in a good way i dont want to just pull out and then like put my clothes back on
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): More important, at the BEGINNING make sure your G/F is using another kind of birth control method!"guillaume" gave some good advice - but - a LOT of couples don't use condoms right and they think they are protected but they aren't. Especially when they're young and really often when its there first time.Most guys like to cum inside their girlfriend and it feels real nice to stay in her for a while. But then your sperm starts leaking out of the condom and she can get pregnant. And ask her if she will give you a BJ before you put it in her. The girl who got my cherry just got me real hard and then put it in and I was cumming even before got in. And she laughed and thought it was funny. There was another couple in the room and they started laughing too because she told them she was gonna take my virginity and they knew what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I take it they don't teach sex ed at your school?
With the entire internet at your disposal... you couldn't find an answer to this on your own?
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