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30-35,
*vilcats
writes: hey my mom wont let me stay over my bf house im almost 20. why is she doing this to me? and she thinks im giving myself away what dids she mean by that? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): well if you're living under roof then you'll pretty much have to do whatever she says. Even if you are 20.
If you don't like it then move out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Well honey, you need to sit down with your mother and have a chat about your age, and what you're 'allowed to do'. You're nearly 20, and thus you're an adult. You need to explain to your mother that although you respect her views, you are old enough now to make your own decisions. Sometimes mums don't want to see their little girls growing up, and find it very difficult to stop thinking of their children as children.
Don't get annoyed with her, just sit and have a chat - let her tell you her worries etc.
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