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writes:I am a male 25. My female friend aged 23 says she dont know anything about sex. She dont know what is masturbation and fingering. She doesnt know what sexual urge is.R there such girls present on earth. Is she a girl or what. She says she will learn it after marriage. Is she a girl or what. is it good for her to be a pure dumbo at age 23. In her company i feel that i also should not have knowledge about sex. Is she a girl or what. I have started ignoring her.I feel really bored in her company. Or is she lying. huh...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): im 26 its not that i dont know anything about sex, i have never had sex because ihave always wanted to reserve it for marriage, but tell u what i have a boyfriend who understands me for what iam.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Is your girlfriend a Muslim???? The reason why I am asking this is because they are forbidden to have sex education at school and this will explain her total innocense of sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): I don't see why she'd lie about it. I mean, what good would that do? You've just got to accept that this is the way she chooses to me. Some people want to save themselves for marriage, and personally, I think this is a good idea. Although I believe she should at least have some idea of the world around her. If you really love this woman, then you'll just have to stick by her and support her with what she wants to do. I'm sure she'll be a great lover when she's married! Just the learning process is taking longer for her. However, if you don't feel you could have a healthy relationship with a woman like this, then end it. Because she deserves a man that can wait for her, with patience and care. You've got to release your sexual energy somehow, whether it's masturbation or intercourse, and if there's a possibility of her stopping you doing this then maybe you shouldn't be together. But if this does not bother you and you're fine with waiting patiently, by all means, stay together! Remember, some girls have sexual pasts of prostitution - you're lucky your girl is so strong and wise.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Yes it's quite likely she is telling the truth, but if your attitude to her is as you've written then she's not the right girl for you. If you can't respect her views then I suggest you should leave her alone and find someone else.
On a slightly separate issue and in reply to Annalisa's reply, most branches of Christianity don't specifically forbid masturbation. There is a verse in the Old Testament that goes on about not "spilling your seed upon the ground" which has been taken as an order not to masturbate, but this was written at a time when increasing the population was a priority and anything else was a distraction from that - and in fact if you read the particular section carefully there's far more to it than that (Genesis 38). The "sin" of masturbation is in fact mostly from Robert Baden-Powell, founder of the Scouting movement, who was obsessed with the idea that "beastliness" as he called it, was the root of all evil in youngsters. If you can get hold of an original copy of his book "Scouting for Boys" without all the later re-writes, then read it. It's hilarious.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Of course it could be true. Plenty of people go through life with no idea about sex - but they learn from partners who are patient and considerate. But dude, this aint you, you gotta dump the attitude, it doesnt sound like you have a very high opinion of your girlfriend and that is not a good way to go if you want a happy life. Show some respect and don't call her a dumbo, o.k?
And if you are lucky you may be the one to teach her.
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