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writes:I really like my friend. She found out, I gave her space because she didnt like me. Its been 2 months, yet were still not talking. She's rejected my calls. Can anyone advice me on how to talk to her one last time-attempt before I give up? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 There's a song in Spanish that goes like this: "What do I want your kisses for, if your lips don't want to kiss me anymore?" You will not like this, but it's very clear that you have no future with this girl. The sooner you recognize it so, and move on, the better. And it's the better for you.
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reader, salvation +, writes (24 April 2008):
in there kinds of situations face to face is the only real way go to her tell her you need to talk to her and explain how you feel and if she doesnt feel the same express your feelings for still wanting to stay as friends. Good luck
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reader, binhquangdao  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 don't try to contact her let her be show her that you are not a wuss girls hate wuss so be a man and don't contact her she will contact you when she's ready if not just move on but dont' wait around for her.
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (24 April 2008):
 You may have to accept that you have no romantic future together. Once you’ve taken that on board, you might find that the words to say come a little easier. If she rejects your calls, leave a voicemail, or send a text or e-mail. If you’re sorry, tell her. If your friendship means more to you than a potential relationship, tell her that being friends is more important to you. Whatever you say, let her know that you will respect whatever she decides, as you should. Onces you’ve pleaded your case, back off and let her make her decision. If she doesn’t contact you, she has made up her mind. If your friendship means as much to her as it does to you, then she’ll call. Then it’d down to you to draw a line under this and move on.
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