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writes:i have a problem i know its a weird one but i need help ok well to start my g-f and best friend keep on flirting with eachother my g-f says their not but when i have friends saying they see them flirting i think otherwise. also my best friend somehow gets her to turn against me like for exaple yesterday they kepst teasing me because some of my previous g-fs were chubby thats not y i liked them im no chubby chaser i just like ppl for their personalitys and they were very nice but they kept calling me a chubby chaser and teasing it hurt alot so i just left today me and her got in a big fight its still not over she doesnt seem to understand how much shes hurting me we were on msn and i wrote its over the thing is i couldnt send it i still love her so much but im confused on what to do i cant talk to my best friend cuz he doesnt give a shit so i consider him ex best friend and i cant talk to my g-f sell just bitch me out om so confused whether i should stay with her or not ,any advice
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reader, DaveyCrisis  +, writes (1 October 2009):
I have a similar problem. My best friend is flirting with my g-f behind my back and he invited her to his house tomorrow. My g-f told me, but says nothing will happen... well my best friend is known for having sex with his best friends g-fs'... I'd beat him but 2 years of kickboxing really does show for him... My problem... I love her and dont even want her to put herself in a position were she will probably be seduced to cheat... She says she loves me... and wants me to go to columbia with her, her mom and her mom's b-f... friday... 2 days from now.... tommorrow is when they are supposed to hang out... if she goes, i'm not gonna sit around waiting for a report... i dont wanna be hurt again.for you... its mainly your decision... but if i were you... i Would confront her...casually.... or angrily.... ask her whats going on between her and your ex best friend. tell her your not stupid, that you see whats going on... in love. things shouldnt be one sided my friend, if it happens now.... you can believe it will happen again... but remember, if you truly love her, losing her and watching them will hurt much worse than you know...trust me T.TI wish you the best of luck friend.
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reader, dgtonight  +, writes (16 November 2008):
man..i know is to late to answer..my english is bad but i hope you can understand the thing..i have the same problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they dont have nothing right now but theyt are to close to each other...and the hide things to me..it hurts because they think im the bad guy..it just that it hurts to me to see them so close and i know they will fall in love in the future...my girlfriend and i stil 100% in love we have being dating for five months and is great...but my best friend is really annoying me...what should i do man..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): I agree. I think you should make new friends. You should be living life and having fun...not feeling down about people who don't care.
Find people who do care! You are a great person I'm sure, and if they can't see it then they don't deserve you.
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reader, salvation  +, writes (24 April 2008):
well normally i would advise communication but since you dont think you can talk to ether i think you should end it and move on just be sure of what your doing before you do it. Good luck
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