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writes:I asked this girl out for a date and she said yes but the problem lies in the fact that i dont know what to do. I dont want to be the nice guy and do the typical date with diner and a movie, but instead i want to be the guy that makes things interesting and adventurous. And i was wondering if there was any ideas of what i could do in or around the seattle area. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): Dont buy her a bunch of food and entertainment. She will lose respect for you. Forget about chivalry its sexist and backwards. Respect yourself and she will see a person who is self confident, happy, and straightforward.
That being said, it is a good idea to suggest the plan for the date as the person who requested the date.
I would recomend going for a hike in the outdoors. something not too strenuous but scenic. Bring along some wine and cheese if you want to seem classy.
Conversation is key. Movies are the WORST place for conversation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): well first of all, if your not usually the interesting and adventurous guy you shouldnt pretend to be.... you should be yourself and take her somewhere that YOU would normally want to go on a date too. dont ever pretend to be someone your not. its not a very good trait.
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