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writes:hi, my girlfriend seems to be lacking a clit. {white american female}. i looked but cannot find one, even a small one. she lacks a hood that protects the clit. she is very highly stimulated by oral, and will orgasmn many times. she also orgasms 5 to 6 times during intercourse. is this possible to lack a clit and still be aroused from oral stimulation? i cannot bring myself to ask her about this at this time. she may be sensitive about it. i wonder if she is faking orgasms. even though i can feel her vaginal muscles spasm at climax. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Yeah, doesn't sound like there's a problem atall. I have a big clit and have been told its big, but didn't realise, just thought it was normal. As we all think we are normal!
Takes all shapes and sizes, and i know some women have their clits closer to their urethra and vaginal opening than others (i expect the ones with it close to hte vaginal opening are the 30% who can have orgasms from penetration alone).
If you are going down on her and having sex with her - I don't see why you can't talk to her about it - its about as intimate as you can get, so it seems daft that you can't have a chat with her about her - and your - body!
Go for it! Seems like there is no trouble ther eanyway if she's orgasming!
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reader, ::it was an honest mistake::  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 I don't think it's a real problem.
She obviously likes what you're doing :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): She just has a small clit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): Doesn't sound like there's a problem to me honey :] If she's enjoying what you're doing and orgasming that many times, then I'm sure everything's fine. It is actually often quite hard to actually see a clitoris, so I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 It sounds like there's nothing wrong with her at all if she has that many orgasms!! Not having a clitoris would make it more difficult. I'm sure it's impossible 'not' to have one, though - and it isn't something that is really noticeable - it's more a sensitive spot under the skin than an actual sticking out structure, as far as I know (only knowing myself!!). So I'm sure she has got one, and that everything is fine.
FYI: Women orgasm in several ways, the main two being clitoral and deep vaginal. Feeling the muscles tense up would be the internal, vaginal type of orgasm. The clitoral one is a more focused intense feeling at the clitoris, but doesn't necessarily set off the vaginal contractions.
Interestingly, the uterus also contracts, I think, because when pregnant I could feel that.
Anyhow, if you really want to address this with your girl, you could just bring up the question of different orgasms and what she actually experiences ... then that will bring up the clitoris question in an oblique sort of way ... but to be honest I don't think you need to worry ... : )
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