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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Recently I met a guy who works for my dad. We were working together at an exhibition away from where we both live. He has a girlfriend who I met the same day I met him. He is not very attractive but throughout the exhibition we got on really well. On the last night we went clubbing togeher and got very drunk and ended up having sex together. Afterwards he said he hadn't used me but felt weird being that I was the boss' daughter and that he had a girlfriend. He then text me saying he would definitely like to do it again sometime. Since then I have been working at the office near where we live and he has been really distant with me and, even though he gave me his number without me asking for it and told me to text him when he is at work, he never replies.The problem is because he is showing me no interest it is making me more determined to get with him again and I have even started to like him. I know he has a girlfriend and I really don't know what to do now. I know I should just forget about it but I just want to understand why he got with me in the first place, gave me his number and told me to text him and why he said he'd like to do it again sometime.I know this is really bad and I'm not looking to break them up but I would happily settle just to be with him again. How can I go about getting him to get with me again?
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reader, salvation +, writes (25 April 2008):
i know you might want to get with him but i dont think you should you just want what you cant have and i bet you as soon as you get him you wont want him anymore and i think he is unsure of what he wants right now you should give him some space to decide
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): I think it's obvious that he has realised he made a mistake, and wants to continue on with his relationship. He is not interested in anything with you, and you should probably stop trying to get in contact with him. It's true that both of you made the wrong decision that night, but he chose to leave it at the one and you need to choose to let him get on with his life.
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reader, rproctor  +, writes (24 April 2008):
If you really wanted to be the slut here and continually procrastinate a very bad situation, you could write very promiscuous texts saying things like I want you to finger my ass and I cant wait to take your dick deep in my mouth. That should wing him... If thats not enough, maybe you could text him a nudie.
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