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writes:Dear Cupids,my hubby was on facebook when a chat popped up from 1 of his friends saying 'can u chat?'. He quickly got rid of the message and acted like he didnt care.A few mins later his messenger rang as it was this girl again but he just closed the windows without reading the messages.This is driving me crazy! Is this suspicious to u guys? I could really do with some opinions.....I dont want to mention it to him yet coz i wanna get some proper info before i go acusing himYour help would be greatly appreciated :)Thanksxxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Well its possible thats tosh. Like i said before, i am not totally up with facebook, but if someone popped up on my pc, asking if i wanted to chat, i would wanna know who it was and would ask them! Human nature surely. Unless you dont want someone to see it thats nearby obviously.
I have never quite understood what people need to be chatting with all n sundry on the net for though, when they are supposedly in happy relationships?
Hmmm
C XXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI found out that it was a stranger who he was messaging (Sex messages) where do i go from here? He does not know her at all!!
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reader, sassymouse +, writes (10 May 2008):
 For her to come up on his facebook chat she must be one of his linked friends, therefore he probably knows her. There is the option to decline anyone he doesnt like so shes probably some kind of aquaintance rather than a stranger or a stalker. Ask him about it, dont bottle it up because it'll only make it worse. If he reacts badly or you suspect hes lying then you probably have an issue. good luck xxx
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reader, xXx_Nikki_xXx +, writes (25 April 2008):
Hey,If your worried about something, you have the right to ask him. Nothing wrong with being curious about things after all you should be able to talk about anything. He may just give you a straight anwser. Hope you sort things out x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 April 2008):
She might be a friend who he couldn't be bothered with. She could be a crazy stalker who he is trying to avoid.
Or he could be doing something naughty.
Next time something pops up just ask him who it is. Be friendly about it.
I ask my husband about his friends and he asks me about mine. We are quite curious about eachothers lives because, you know, we're married.
If he reacts badly then you may have a problem.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 April 2008):
Hi
Should you be suspicious? Yes, and no. Could be a stranger? Im not totally clued up on how facebook works even though i'm on it, albeit rarely!
But it could just be someone he chats to ocasionally, but didnt want to at the time.
If it concerns you though, i would ask him outright, but without being accusing. Nothing wrong with that if you are curious.
C xxxx
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