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*jsothere
writes:hi i have been seeing my bf since last november stated fantastic he was all over me .then after 1 month nothing he never hardly touches me .we now go swinging and he does everything with the other women ,i have asked why not me but he wont talk about it .im very low as i love him but he wont comit 2 me in any way im not after marrage but i need 2 feel wanted .i have to make my self come as he wont .only time he eva touches me is if we are swinging then its nothing compared to the other womenin volved .plzz some 1 am i over reacting here dnt no what 2 do .feeling so lonely and un atractive i enjoy swinging but shouldnt i get some thing of my bf also plz help amanda xx
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reader, bfly36  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Im sorry this is hapapening he is obviously not a one woman man and i think u deserve the attention and love a man can give. Let him go i know its hard to break up but the pain of being with him is probably worst than being alone for now. good luck and stay strong, and think about u first always.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Get rid of this guy, he has no respect for you and its obvious he would sooner have sex with another woman than you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 April 2008):
I agree with HLSkitten.He has you at home but gets to sleep around when ever he wants.Tell him you want him to be exclusive with you for a few months. Tell him you need him to talk about your problems. If he doesn't want to do those things then tell him there is no point you staying together.Don't stay with a man who isn't making you happy and sexy and loved.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 I guess you have to ask yourself is this the relationship of your dreams? If the answer is no, then you know what to do.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Hi
Just one of the risks when you involve a third party or more in your sex life. Hard to know whats going on with him, because i couldn't share a guy myself, but sounds like he wants the stability of a relationship, but wants sex with other people. I think its called something like, er, having cake and eating it, something like that anyway :o/
C xxxx
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