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30-35,
*anjellypoo
writes:When i was at my aunts cottage in september this guy got my drunk and we ended up having sex. I only remember the end of it and how much i was crying cause i was upset about it being my first time and i didnt want to. but i dont remember what lead up to it. My aunts now dating this creep and i dont know what to do because im always with my cousins. My cousin says that hes climbed into bed with her even though hes doing my aunt. was it my fault?
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reader, chinky  +, writes (24 April 2008):
You must understand that you have done nothing wrong whatsoever. So yes you got drunk,didnt make the best decisions, so what? we all screw up at times, nobody's perfect remember.
When i lost it the first time i knew the guy for less than a month.
it wasent everything that i had expected, and now that im with
my current bf, i realize what a stupid mistake i made. worse part was that i was completely sober, and i knew exactly what i was doing.sadly, the asswhole stopped talking to me two weeks after,i found out that he left me for another girl.
So dont worry about this being your fault. It was his fault completely, if he knew that you were under the influence, he should have taken you home, and bought you some coffee for the hangover, instead of taking advantage of you.
Hope This Helps.
*if you need any advice let me know, ill gladly help =)
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reader, chinky +, writes (24 April 2008):
You must understand that you have done nothing wrong whatsoever. So yes you got drunk,didnt make the best decisions, so what? we all screw up at times, nobody's perfect remember.
When i lost it the first time i knew the guy for less than a month.
it wasent everything that i had expected, and now that im with
my current bf, i realize what a stupid mistake i made. worse part was that i was completely sober, and i knew exactly what i was doing.sadly, the asswhole stopped talking to me two weeks after,i found out that he left me for another girl.
So dont worry about this being your fault. It was his fault completely, if he knew that you were under the influence, he should have taken you home, and bought you some coffee for the hangover, instead of taking advantage of you.
Hope This Helps.
*if you need any advice let me know, ill gladly help =)
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reader, Tadris +, writes (24 April 2008):
This was definitely NOT your fault! This guy took advantage of you,and he sounds like a real perv.If your aunt does'nt know what has happened,you might want to think about telling her. I'm sure she would want to know what kind of loser she's seeing. I think it would be best to get this guy out of you and your family's life
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): Hell no it's not your fault!
I wonder if he spike your drink?
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female
reader, bfly36 +, writes (24 April 2008):
 No none of this is your fault, and dont think ALL men are like this!!! If you are a minor or your cousin is a minor i would report him that is sexual abuse and it is a CRIME!! I'm sorry your first time was so bad its not how it should be but now u have a chance to wait for the right person to come along, stay away from him as much as u can. Remember drinking leads to crazy stuff that u will regret later, stuff happens just learn from it and don't let it happen again.
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