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writes:I went out with an old friend a few days ago, and we got on as well as we always did, talked for hours non stop about what we'd been up too, told stories about things that had happened since we last spoke, and just generally had a laugh. Problem is I cant shake the feeling that I acted like a fool and she won't like me anymore. Looking back its like I done most of the talking, and was in hyper mode or something. I just feel I was really "full on" and too over the top. I was told by my ex that I "shouted" when I spoke, Im now thinking what if I did that all night? What will she think of me, will she not want to go out again and if we did, I'd really need to "control" myself.I dont know if I really was like this, I just feel really wierd about it, its horrible. I cant help but wonder what she thinks of me, and how stupid I made myself look... any advice/help would be welcomed.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Just ask her out again, tell her that you think you might have been doing too much of the talking. Then do your best to listen to her, ask her questions about herself that don't simply need a 'yes' or 'no' answer, and give yourself the benefit of the doubt.
You could practice a little bit during the phone call with her...you might just be overanalyzing this!
Relax, deep calming breaths, stay calm. Then pick up the phone and report back to us.
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reader, salvation +, writes (24 April 2008):
stop worrying catching up with old friends of course you were a bit excited but she was too and im sure she was focusing more on the conversation and what you were saying rather than how loud you were saying it. Next time just hold back a bit.
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