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Two questions, one on how to start a conversation and one that friends have a problem with...

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Question - (15 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i kind of have 2 questions but there is a girl i likebut didn't know how to aproach her as to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her any form of help will be apriciated and my second is that she is in year 8 and i'm in year 10 and my friends have a problem with that as she is 2 years younger but i don't see a wrong but whos right. all apreciated .peace out

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A male reader, kb123 United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

hi im in the same place at the moment with this girl, not to sure wat to say to her or wether she is the right age.... try and talk to her about what she is intrested in as girls love to talk about them self if you want to go out with her on a date say , i have seen this movie would you like to come and watch it with me and some friends also ash how her day was if you have got a summer holiday coming up ask wat she is doing if you are going out with some mates invite her out say do you wanna come out this weekend or 2mrow "up"town" ask wat type of tv programs she watches if you need any more help you can mail me good luck and let me know how it goes with this girl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

The ages are fine! Don't worry about what your friends say - just tell them that she's the one you want to be with!

Starting a conversation - you can take things slowly if you want! Just start by saying hi whenever you see her, and then ask her how she is. Find a topic that you and her are both interested in and ask her something about that - (but try to avoid questions that just have "yes/no" answers) The conversation should just flow on from there!

Good luck! x x x

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A female reader, gothish United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

well firstly, you could start by saying "hi". being a girl, i know that if an older guy talks to her, she will think it's so cool. you only need tobe yourself around her, because if she doesn't like that, then she's not really woth it. if she does like you for you, then go for it.

i would advise you to ignore your friends, it's your life, so it's your choice. 2 years isn't that much or a difference if you are both mature enough, i'm with a guy 4 years older than me and we are doing fine. if you really like this girl then follow your instincts and trust your heart.

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A male reader, friendleyness United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

hey dude you should just play it cool and ask her what her name is.and just be your self

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntThers nothing wrong wrong with the age.

And just go up to her and make conversation ask her what she doing tonite or whats films or music she likes.

Good luck

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