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writes:Hi,I'm so miserable, i've been with my guy for just over a month, we both agree that this is a serious long term relationship obviously feelings and circumstances considered. But i dunno i'm gettin mixed signals! One minute he talks about our future plans (positively) for after we graduate from university i.e travelling together, making a home together etc but sometimes he just seems disinterested, he rarely answers my texts and is always late when we make plans, i feel im making all the effort and dnt bring up my concerns because im tryin 2 b a perfect girlfriend, we don't argue and when we're together we have a great timeAm i just looking for faults?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for helping guys! I'm gonna take things slowly and see how they develop. Salvation your right it is exam time and its our finals so we're both under lots of stress rite now! Thanks again x x x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Hi, you've only been together a month, so things are still developing and you're only just getting to know each other. Lighten up a bit, stop worrying so much about the future and just enjoy his company. I agree with the previous poster that no one is perfect all time, so stop trying so hard. That puts a lot of stress on you and honestly it's better to just be yourself and let him get to know the real you. Life and relationships are not all peaches and cream, you know.
So relax, sit back and enjoy the relationship. Let it develop at it's own pace and don't try to push anything too hard, including yourself.
All the best!
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reader, salvation +, writes (15 April 2008):
well no one is perfect so dont try to be. If its exam time then it could be stress getting to him. If you both agree its long term thats good so just talk to him about the way you feel and it should work out. Best of luck and pm me if ya need advice etc.
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