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It's been 2 years since this happened, he said he realised the importance of our family, but I still have trust issues!

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Question - (15 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am a 19 year old with a 2 year old baby i have been with my boyfriend since i was in 10th grade i got pregnant in 2005 and well i caught by boyfriend talking to some girl he did not tell me but i noticed that he kept his cell phone with him all the time and he never wanted me to go with him anywhere

on christmas day he went out and bought her a dooney bag and well he also bought me one but i had a while asking for it and it upsets me that he did not even think twice about buying this girl he just met a 200 dollar bag

i dont know what to do and well it hurts that he also went on cristmas day to see her and to take her the gift

i found out by listening to a vicemail on his phone cause i had his password the girl was telling him that she has been calling and he dont answer

well he apoligize and he told me everything and that nothing happend i talked to the girl and she also said nothing had happend oh but wait he never told the girl that he was married but he did say he had a girlfriend and that i did not mind but he never mentioned his son.....i really dont know what to do and well it has been 2 years but i still think about it all the time he is so changed in a good way and well he says that it helped him realize what he had......

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A male reader, binhquangdao United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

binhquangdao agony aunthe is young he just needs some time to straigten up be there with him.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (16 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntHe is still young and has got a lot to learn about married life.

You go through life with a lot of trials and errors.

The important thing is you learn from your mistakes.

We all make mistakes and nobody is perfect.

Give him time and he will mature and be the person you want to live with.

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